Give me some advie please?

Okay let me explain the first incident. This guy I guess all the girls like him and stuff had been picking on me for 3 years straight. I always attempted to tell a teacher. The teacher would do very little and everyone called me a rat . He continue to pick on me calling me fat ugly and other cruel names. I not once said anything back to him. Now I guess since im don’t really appear to be strong im just people punching bag. But since I was a kid Id been taking Martial arts and boxing. So the guy teased me the other day and I made up my mind I was no longer going to take this. So I soon as he did his daily routine and said something about me I immediately attacked him I through punch after punch at him. Grabbed his legs picked him up and slammed him. And begin punching him in his nose then in his eye. Some how his nose broke and he had scars all around his face. When they security guards tried to restrain me they put me in a headlock knowing martial arts I immdedialty escaped. And persisted on attacking him I was thinking about all the time she embarresed me and ever said anything toward me. And I punch him some more and some more till the security guards finally restrained me. I was brought to the office and all the girls that liked him were saying things like you got serious anger management problems what did he ever do to you he was just joking. And the imedialy ran over to him brought him tissue and band aids to ooze his words. Will all the staff of the school were saying things like I have serious anger problems and im some crazy person who needs counseling. So we both were suspended and the guy didn’t pick on me anymore. But he still picked on some other people who were just like me. Who said nothing to nobody and just minded their own business.











Now the second incident that led up to people thinking im some crazy person. Well these girls have their little clique . they have the worst attitured in the whole entire school. And one of the girls in it I was minding my own business and she punched me in my shoulder. I went to go tell a teacher but another girl in their little group who had been teasing me for some time said something about my breath and teeth. I picked up the first thing I saw which was a math book and through it at her hiting her in her face. I was taking to the office suspended now they have put me in anger management classes and tomorrow is my first day. I don’t understand this I don’t have anger management problems people have been picking on me teasing me for the past years making my junior high school days a living hell. And im the one who needs anger management problems. No you need to put them in how to treat people right classes. I never once bullied anyone never teased anyone. Most of the times they have talked about me I have ignore them. So finnaly I decied ive had enough and you put me in a anger management class. Anger management is for crazy people and im not crazy. All my life I had to struggle and fight and that’s made me strong its made me who I am. I get straight A`s in school and do all my work. I try to tell the teacher when someone is bothering me but they don’t listen. What else should I do ?

Give me some advie please?
Good for you. Never let anyone push you around. Go ahead and take the anger management course, that's not a problem.





I do not think anyone will ever pick on you in your class again. If they do, just look at them in the eye and ask them very seriously:





"You don't want a whole anger management course to go to waste now, do you?"
Reply:Attend the anger management classes. They will be educational if nothing else. They are not for crazy people and don't worry about those picking on you. You do need to channel your anger in a more positive way though. A mathbook to the face is hardly necessary for someone TALKING about your breath or teeth. That does call for anger management in my opinion. You'd be fighting a lot of people throughout your life if you did that to everyone who said something mean about you.
Reply:Anger management classes are not for crazy people - they are for people who have trouble managing their anger - which is a LOT of otherwise normal people. I can't tell from your post if you are paranoid from being picked on, or picked on because you are paranoid.





However, no one should be bullied at school.





Talk to your principal or guidance counselors about bringing Challenge Day to your school: http://www.challengeday.org/
Reply:Wow. First of all, congrats for doing that. That person deserved it. That was too crazy. I don't think your crazy at all. Everyone has there breaking point. As long as you know that you are not insane, then you good. I would've done the same thing as you did. I admire you for that.
Reply:O BOY





life does suck I have been in similar situations-no one believed me either.


but


If I understand you correctly you did throw the first punch


This was not good no matter how much of a jerk he is


you did resist the authorities (NEVER A GOOD IDEA)


Have you kept a list (or try to make one of the times that you have been bullie and tryed to get help)Names places what was said etc.


I think you need legal advice each state /province


is different


so


contact as many people as you can, from people who are tying to stop bulling and women's groups-the jerk shouldn't be bothering you


all the best
Reply:Unfortunately it's one of the playground rules that you don't rat on people, but it's tough not being popular. (It's also tough being popular, but I doubt it's half as depressing).





Just act like you're not crazy in anger management. You can say that you knew if you caused a real scene, people would stop bullying you for a while, and it worked, so everyone should just be glad you didn't start shooting the place up.





It would probably be better in future to learn to make people feel as small as they made you feel using words, or to moderately harm people fairly often. I think you've done quite a lot of damage now though, after battering a girl most people should think you're too psycho to mess.





I'm probably wrong, but apart from beating the girl, I'm impressed, I think you've dealt with it suitably.
Reply:I don't think you have anger management problems either. You had been tormented for a very long time and anyone can only endure so much before they snap. You are only human. I don't think for a minute that you are crazy. Be the bigger person and go to the classes with grace. Be totally honest with the anger managment instructor as you have here. I know you are not looking for sympathy but they have been trained to see the situation clearly.


God Bless!
Reply:Dude, I think you need some good friends, who is in your favour. Instead of fighting alone, make a group. As you told some other people are also frustrated, take them into your side. Try to make a big group. Because in big group no body will dare to mess with you.


And then make a plan, whoever mess with you how to tackle with them. and try to be tackle thing smartly rather than being wild.


Being a good person is not enough you have to be smart.


Also do meditation at your home, which will keep you calm and relax.


And keep faith in god, some time the situation would be tough but never do such a thing that you have to rue on your action.


And last thing don't change your nature, for others. Keep smiling.

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