Saturday, May 15, 2010

Homeschooling for 7th grade boy (middle school)?

I am planning to homeschool my 7th grade boy this fall. He attended public middle school for 6th grade and had a bad year. He was not challenged academically (classes were easy and boring for him) and he was teased because he is smart and a minority (1/2 Asian in a school w/ 70% White and 25% Hispanic). He is also not the typical soccer or baseball playing kid. He is now on a swim team and does martial arts. I'm trying to make the best choices with him and for him. I think homeschooling will be OK, but I worry about him making a transition to 8th grade in a private school or 9th grade in a public or private high school. He is a nice kid, but really got picked on. Any suggestions?

Homeschooling for 7th grade boy (middle school)?
My advice would be to homeschool now, and worry about returning to school if or when you decide to do it. 7th grade is almost all review, if your son was bored in 6th he'll be snoozing through 7th!


You might try a curriculum or a mix of curriclums that have placement tests so you can put him right where he needs to be academically.


Some good ones can be found on these sites:


http://www.teachingtextbooks.com


http://www.aophomeschooling.com


http://www.aceministries.com
Reply:well coming from a 14 year old who was home schooled and transitioned to a private school. I would say homeschooling has it's benefits but..your child wont get the socialization skills he's going to need and i would say a private school is a lot better than a public school. and the kids are usually nicer. But he's your son. Ask him what he wants first and decide from there what you think is best.
Reply:If you decide to homeschool him, join a homeschool association in your area. Some of my neighbors homeschool their kids and they belong to those groups. They go on field trips, and have activities and projects for the kids, so they are around others.
Reply:I have an awesome program for homeschooling we have clubs teachers and the most awesome outings and the most neatest lessons he will never be picked on here and we actually have a school for the smartest kids. that is a shame the way he was treated you tell him those kind of people make the world a rotten place. they aren't worth much. my son is 13 almost 14 and loves his program and if you decided to go back to public that is fine to they will give you a free computer with all lessons on it it an awesome program give it try and you will see your child grow in many ways public school stinks the kids seem to be bad good luck to you both it can be very frustrating your an awesome mom keep up the good work and if you get on k12 look for Mr. Marley the most awesome math teacher around you will see us there good luck.www.k12.com
Reply:This site has some helpful links and information about bringing public-schooled children home to school, maybe it can help you and your son decide if it's a commitment you want to make:





http://www.geocities.com/the_green_willo...





Good luck and God bless!
Reply:Coming from an indivdual who was teased in school and was later home-schooled for four years (5th - 8th grade) I can tell you that home-schooling would not be the best alternative for your son. My mother home-schooled me and I felt that it wasn't healthy for me to be in that type of environment. I had problems adjusting to high school academically and socially, which were problems I did not have before being home-schooled. Now I am 25 years old and I am a teacher myself and I am still dealing with these same issues. Believe me I endured the same problems as your son in regards to being teased, but homeschooling is not the best route to take. My advice would be to enroll him in a highly recommended private school. Good luck.
Reply:dont homeschool unless he wants it





ask him





just transfer to a different school


or move
Reply:Keep him in public school. If you are not a teacher it will be hard for you to teach him what he needs to know. (math, ancient history, English and earth science) if you are a teacher best of luck because I am one and I would not home school my kids!!!


Tired of being P.C. about my views. You'll either agree or think me an A**?

I've been responding and reading for several days. Without being P.C. Lose the EGO, belts are worthless. No one style is better than any other in the ARTS of Martial arts. They all do Kata and Tag, get over it. Hate me, send me crappy responses Blah, Blah, Blah. You want spirital enlightment get religion you want to defend yourself learn somthing besides Kata and Tag. I can't wait to hear you all hate me. Why won't schools still accept or put out challenges anymore (Gracies still do, there excluded then) you think you'd actually be able to fight with skills learned in normal dojo, and win against a real fighter. Bring on the hate mail. Bless all you who pay ever month to learn a kata or pay to play tag and win a plastic trophy. O.K. I'm better now. Thanks for reading my rant. I think its all out now. I'll be back to my normal kind, nice, P.C. self again. Be as mean as you like, It'll make me feel better. I really don't mean to cause a negative emotion just debate

Tired of being P.C. about my views. You'll either agree or think me an A**?
Good post, full of common sense. Of course those who train in MARTIAL arts without actually FIGHTING are going to have problems with what you say, but it's 100% true. If you practice this stuff to learn self defense, then you better be actually training with people who are fighting back...lol. Otherwise, that false sense of security you're getting by doing choreographed techniques and playing tag will get you into a crap load of trouble if a real situation occurs.
Reply:you need to take a few bong hits and chill
Reply:I think your a little close minded but I really dont know enough about you to really hate you. All in all you seem to be a simplistic style martial artist which has its advantages and disadvantages
Reply:every one is entitled to their own opinion.





it is called: freedom of speech





"so rant all you want, just dont anybody get between me and the blood wine" (cpt sisko star trek deep space nine)





god bless
Reply:i disagree, but it's okay, opinions have to be different. could you imagine how boring life would be if we all agreed on everything?





please do keep in mind, these styles have been kept alive for thousands of years for a reason. it is the artist, not the art, that determines how successful the style really is.
Reply:Sorry I didn't know what P.C. mean until someone else told me.





Well all I can say is Patton once say "the dirtier you say it, the better people will remeber it" I believe he's right about that.
Reply:I do not know exactly what you are trying to say.





It is the courage and confidence that people are trying to achieve from training martial arts and not the name, trophies or fighting.





Skills are nothing. It is like walking -- a basic skill that everyone can do. Many people can walk across a rope bridge without any difficulty. However, dare you walk across a rope bridge which is 10,000 feet above ground or a rope bridge with hungry sharks underneath ? You have the skills but you may not have the courage to apply your skills.





With trained skills and body co-ordination, hopefully that Martial artists can gain the confidence. If you want to bully someone, just pick the weak one that you know for sure that you can beat him -- no need to learn martial arts. On the contrary, no matter how good you are, there will be someone better than you.





Martial arts are not for fighting -- learning how to shoot is more effective.
Reply:First of all, there is style stronger than the other, also the reason why it might be ok to say that all styles are not stronger than the other is because martial arts * styles * are limited by.....well....the style. And how this *style* is supose to be fighting and etc.


So if you practice * a style* your are automaticly limited by the *style*





Second, martial arts, depending on what you look for in martial arts and what style, can help with spirituality. If you practice styles like karate or tkd or something close to this, you can forget about the spirituality. But if you practice chinese gung fu, there might be a chance that spirituality will be involved. Espacially Bagua, Xin Yi, Tai Chi etc.





Third...Throw some D's on that b*tch!!!!!!!!
Reply:depends on the person
Reply:RAmen!





you have been promoted to the level of swashbuckler in the church of the flying spaghetti monser. You will have 3rd pick (after the pirates and pirate captains- the fsm's chosen, read the gospels) of the strippers that come out of the stripper factory in heaven.





There is no place in martial arts for P.C., especially not when someone can get hurt if they believe thier little kata work or "co-op" training is doing anything for them.





maybe the techs work, but if you don't learn how to apply them what good are they?





I might have the top top computer in the world but if I haven't learned to use it then all it is is just a big paperweight.





I'll never understand the mentality that people think they can learn to fight without fighting. Its like playing checkers to learn to play chess.





EDIT: I can still insult you, you dirty mouse felching pauly shore wanna be maggot if you want. Your mother was a hamster and your father smelled of elderberries, I fart in your general direction you filthy enlgish knnnig-hiit.
Reply:dog turd through rose tinted glasses still smells like dog turd, so its good to get rid of the ridiculous rose tinted PC crap. truth is always harsh, and to coat it for easy swallowing never helps the person getting the advice.





do not go back, stay up front. you may lose friends (as if you need them if they cant handle reality), but you wont lose sight of reality.





of course, one mans truth is another mans lie. this may be because of our flawed interpretations, or just plainly the most obvious: they dont want to accept it.
Reply:accaualy i aggree with you belt,s are a wester invention to make the student feel some achevement \\\ as for enlightment that is in each persone if he or she want,s it \\ as for chalenges,s against school to school not in this country but i know of chalenge,s betwen outher school in the east that regulaery fight like cat,s and dog,s just for sh--_ %26amp; GIGGLE,S
Reply:1) You have no idea what you are talking about.


2) You need professional help.
Reply:I agree and disagree, how ever I must say I do kata because I like to. Who would ever use a flying side kick in a street fight, how about triple. I like to do these things for the physical and mental training. how ever I also do alot of sparring were there is ground fighting and such.
Reply:Next time, save your energy. Just type "I suck at traditional martial arts and I'm bitter." It will communicate the same thing.
Reply:she'll be right mate dont get your knickers in a knot.have a jd and relax.mate if you take notice of what most ppl write on here you'll end up insane,or is it to late?lol.it goes like this-90% of ppl here are brain dead morons that wouldn't knowshit from clay but think they know everything.10% are worth taking note of thier answers whether thier right or wrong.out of that 10% about2.5% actually know what there talking about and are generally pretty honest and dont sugarcoat thier answers or say what ppl want to hear.i havn't read your other questions or answers so i wont judge but going by this one id say your in the 90%.
Reply:blah, blah, blah, (Gracies still do, there excluded then) blah, blah, blah.


At least you made a good point. That much I completely agree with.





Glad you are better now.
Reply:I don't think you're an ***, and i don't think you're right. I do however, think you're an idiot.
Reply:You just suck. Kata, Kata, Kata. Belts are the best, if you don't have a black belt you suck. I could kick your butt. I'd throw a kata on you, you wouldn't know what to do. I'm serious dude, I'll take you on. Point, Point, Point dude I win.


Randy, the village people cop, is right dude.

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Child prodigy, it sucks!?

Since i was 5 years old i have dedicated all my time to basketball. I have had personal coaches paid by my parents %26amp; have won at the national level at many ages. My high school team won state championship last year. I am ranked at the top 50 at the highschool level even though i am a freshman, %26amp; am considered a child prodigy since the age of 12. The problem is that people feel intimidated by my presence %26amp; i dont know what to do. My only friends are some of my teammates Whenever i walk into a room, like the cafeteria, people stare at me. I started taking mixed martial arts 1 year ago because Older guys than me always want to start fights %26amp; try to beat me up. As a result I have been suspended from my schools 3 times. The principle told me if it happens again, i will be expelled from the school. I dont know why they pick on me so much. It's not like i am short or cocky, cocky maybe a little but not that i go telling people that i am better so i dont see what is the prob what should i do??

Child prodigy, it sucks!?
You have a gift honey. Ordinary people can be very jealous of those with special gifts and talents. When I started high school all the boys thought I was beautiful and the girls hated me. Just be extra nice to everyone. People can't be intimidated by you if you treat everyone as a friend. It's pretty amazing that you're so talented, most boys only dream of your level of skill. Treat everyone like a friend, and they won't be intimidated by you.
Reply:A little cocky? Sounds like you are more than a little cocky. I'd lay off the child prodigy routine and let people get to know the real you! Also, you don't see anything wrong with your behavior...maybe people really don't like you because you are pushy?
Reply:People are always jealous of people who do well. Brush it off and don't let it bother you. Play down your talent when in a mixed crowd so that they won't try to reproach you.





Also, saying that it's not because you are short or witty is kind of judgemental on your part, don't you think?
Reply:keep taking the defense classes but remember... the higher in martial arts you go, the more control you have. you can tell the best martial artists by how well they can pull their punches. they'll probably tell you to talk first... as for the basketball part... keep playing, prodigy or not you're still on the team, people would still look at you differently...

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Child prodigy. it sucks!?

Since i was 5 years old i have dedicated all my time to basketball. I have had personal coaches paid by my parents %26amp; have won at the national level at many ages. My high school team won state championship last year. I am ranked at the top 50 at the highschool level even though i am a freshman, %26amp; am considered a child prodigy since the age of 12. The problem is that people feel intimidated by my presence %26amp; i dont know what to do. My only friends are some of my teammates Whenever i walk into a room, like the cafeteria, people stare at me. I started taking mixed martial arts 1 year ago because Older guys than me always want to start fights %26amp; try to beat me up. As a result I have been suspended from my schools 3 times. The principle told me if it happens again, i will be expelled from the school. I dont know why they pick on me so much. It's not like i am short or cocky, cocky maybe a little but not that i go telling people that i am better so i dont see what is the prob what should i do??

Child prodigy. it sucks!?
The only advice I can give is be yourself, do not let other peoples attitude change you. You have every right to be who you are, I know it hurts but you must ignore those who stare at you... With those bullies, try to get away with them, defend when you need to, never throw the first punch... Never be the one to throw it, let them be the first to start it. Its hard to be different, I know that from experience even if I am not a prodigy... You have to ignore those who look at you oddly, try to make conversations with other people to show your like any other kid who likes to have friends.
Reply:how many times are you gonna ask this question


anyways it sounds like your way to full of your self and i bet you go on and on and on about how your the best basket ball player and i bet that really annoys people.and i bet you're really not as good as you think you are which gets people annoyed if i were you i'd just drop this whole child prodigy thing and act like aq normal kids who isn't full of him self





now good night i'm going to bed
Reply:Lucky, I wish I was a child prodigy.


I don't know what else you can do besides avoiding them.
Reply:How many times are you gonna ask this question?
Reply:Maybe if you repeat it over and over it will come true right? bah.
Reply:Talk to the principal about your options. You have a right to defend yourself, and you shouldn't be held responsible for other peoples actions.
Reply:You sound SO full of yourself that it's ridiculous.





Maybe if you quit being so full of yourself, it would help.





And I swear, the last time I asked this question, you were ranked in the top 100, not the top 50...And that was only moments ago.


Monday, November 16, 2009

Child prodigy, it sucks.?

Since i was 5 years old i have dedicated all my time to basketball. I have had personal coaches paid by my parents %26amp; have won at the national level at many ages. My high school team won state championship last year. I am ranked at the top 50 at the highschool level even though i am a freshman, %26amp; am considered a child prodigy since the age of 12. The problem is that people feel intimidated by my presence %26amp; i dont know what to do. My only friends are some of my teammates Whenever i walk into a room, like the cafeteria, people stare at me. I started taking mixed martial arts 1 year ago because Older guys than me always want to start fights %26amp; try to beat me up. As a result I have been suspended from my schools 3 times. The principle told me if it happens again, i will be expelled from the school. I dont know why they pick on me so much. It's not like i am short or cocky, cocky maybe a little but not that i go telling people that i am better so i dont see what is the prob what should i do??

Child prodigy, it sucks.?
OK you will face a lot of problems like this your whole life. What your suppose to do is just be yourself. Don't let them change you. Expecially in the big leagues you will have to deal with certain thing like this,or worse. You just stay true to yourself, but being cocky is just another sign of insecurity. Try to watch what you say sometimes to certain people. Its ok everyone seems to have a certain cockyness in them so don't feel bad about it lol. Don't go looking for revenge on these people either, because one day you will be better than them. They are just haters lol. But if they try to fight just tell the principal whats up he/or she can help. If not then just learn to ignore there comments.
Reply:Ha. Thats a funny story. If you really wanted an answer to this you could have said "People are jealous of me, so they beat me up. What should I do?" Instead you had to make up a gay story trying to impress people. You would have just asked your parents or somebody anyways you jackass. Report It

Reply:I don't believe you.
Reply:Regardless of the 'prodigy' status, after the first incident you should have brought it to the attention of both your parents and the principal and explained the problem. If the fights continued, you should, again bring it to their attention. If the principal is suspending you, then he believes you are somehow involved or at fault. At this point, you're at the 3 strike limit.





So, you should get to class early and leave school late (later than the older guys who want to pick fights). Find something to do after school, when not practicing, that keeps you away from these older guys. There's got to be something you can do to avoid them. Also, don't hang around where you know you might run into them.





Keep telling yourself that once you get out of High School, none of what's going on now will matter (other than your grades). So, focus on getting higher grades. If you happen to make it to the NBA and actually make lots of cash as a star player, great. If not, you will need the grades so you can go to college and get a degree; ultimately, so you can get a good paying job if the NBA doesn't pan out.
Reply:imma call 1-800-bull-****
Reply:U SHUT UP U
Reply:thats a pretty long story.


How do I ask this girl out?

Well she doesn't go to the same school as me, the school dances at both schools don't let people in from other schools, she is too young to go out on a "date" with. What do I do? She goes to martial arts with me on wednesdays and thursdays. Next time I see her is next thursday, 1 week from now. Please help me.

How do I ask this girl out?
go on a group date with her and just have her say to her parents that you guys are just hanging out to bond with martial arts buddies.


or... have a few of your martial arts buddies come over to your house and invite her and let everyone know that its just for extra sparring practice or a hangout then you can hang out with her in ur room or something while others are watching a movie. that might do the trick.
Reply:Go to her home %26amp; befriend her 'mom'
Reply:well first of all have a conversation with her and make her feel special.


Also a bit of flirting never herts.


And after a bit ask if she wants to go to the beach or something like that


or the movies.


its not that hard to ask someone out


if they say no just remeber there are alot more girls in the sea and that you dont have to just get a girlfriend straight away.
Reply:Okay. First things first.


1. You must be already in the friend circle she has. If you have talked to her once or twice it's very likely she'll reject you.


2. Try to talk to her in private, say something like "listen I need to ask you something, can we go over there"


3. Say to her "See, I was thinking that maybe if you wanted to we could like catch a movie sometime this week. Just to hang around. Can you make it?"


4. If she says her parents will say no "Oh, I see... Mmm, maybe we can do something else? Do you know something we can do? I dunno... go for a walk."
Reply:you know best way to get to a girls heart is flowers bring her flowers and then be polite and always ask the dad if you can take his daughter out on a date! she might be too young but you never know talking to the father or maybe even the mother if shes in a single parent home might work! i mean it worked on my dad when i first started dating!


How to get in the stuntman business?

im 18 and wish to become a martial arts stuntman. im located in nj, whats the closest school i can go to? what steps should i take?anything similar i can tkae in college? i have prior martial arts experience.

How to get in the stuntman business?
Show business is tough.





If you are planning to go to college, good. Being educated makes us all better able to understand life.





Thus, if you take a specific course of study in college and develop your martial arts skills, get gymnastic experience and spend the next four years educating your head and your body, you're on your way.





When at the movies, if you stick around for the credits, start to make notes about the names of the stunt coordinators on the films. If you rent movies, you can easily find out who these people are and by Googling them, find where they work from. Many stunts are coordinated out of Hollywood. You are in NJ, so your first contact might be through the Screen Actors Guild in New York City.





Most stuntpeople have come into the business through relatives or people they know who are working. Specific training for stunt work may be out there, but on the job training will be most important.





Learn the lingo. Ask working stuntpeople how they do a gag. Go to work on a local film and get to know these people and ask questions. Asking is the key. Most knowledgable actors who do stunts are happy to tell you about their experiences.





Now is the time for education. Ease your way into the Business and remember that people die and get broken bones doing stunts. It goes with the territory. Are you up for that? It ain't like falling off a log.. even falling off a log.





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